I find myself, unwittingly, in a psychological pickle with things that bring meaning to my life.
Stuck, I find myself, between two conflicting, perhaps complimentary, however elusively so, powers of influence that bring me as close within myself as they do pull me apart. It's definitely exhausting, not to mention confusing, frustrating, and downright disorienting. In one moment, I am reserved to a frame of mind based on raw instinct and intercommunication; the next, I shy towards processes of systematic theory and independence, some would call isolationism. To quote the Clash's eponymous work, "Should I stay or should I go?" That is, should I figuratively remain with my influences of the past, with which I have always found wisdom, solace, and insights into myself, but never felt a true part of; or depart towards the future, wherein lies my own generation of the misunderstood, yet sympathetic 'tweeners of youth and adulthood, and the promise of near-quarterlife crises and continual metacognitive questioning of self?
Alas, the struggle between both is futile, for I am neither there or here. Instead, I am simply living this moment in time, never constant, ever-changing. I, like most, fill the void between the left and the right, the negative and the positive, the white and the black, the hot and the cold. And yet, as I occupy this vast, broadening space between yin and yang, I cannot help but feel as a reactive atom that desperately wants to bond with another, all to satisfy its wanting - no, its craving - to be in communion and become inert. From there, it has no worry, no need to become more than itself; in essence, it has accomplished its purpose in the universe, thus, it is inert.
But I refuse to become inert, static, complacent with likeness. There's yet a yearning in me to see how I can be rather than what, however the former is much more involving and difficult to sort out than the latter, as many would find. I know that I should not feel the need to conform or become one with people but instead the universe, I know this; but there's nothing wrong with taking some of what you learn from everyone towards your journey into unity with all things, right? The thing is, I continually ask myself, 'which will bring me more into unity?' . The Old or the New? Of course some certain amalgamation of the two would have to suffice; balance and moderation between extremes is, after all, an eventual goal of all things. And to be in control of the fact that you're not in control and to have an omni-awareness of being, these are the things we, or at least most, aspire towards, if not for religion then for one's faith and life itself.
But I digress; I must continually tell myself, 'not Old or New, Old AND New.' Sometimes there's more than just a two-fold choice; a middle way, as Buddhists would put it. But then again, is there any distinction? If time is really everchanging, everpresent, everexistent, would there be a difference? Old would be old and new would be new, but only relatively. Despite the culture or society which surrounds it, old and new aren't changed by the fact that they simply are. In other words, I refuse to believe that one point in time has precedence over the other, when it comes to finding one's purpose in being. Wisdom is wisdom; even as it was forged in the past, we still pass it down knowing that it matters, and even as it is born on fresh lips, we know, whether collectively or individually, what to think of it and what kind of effect it has on us.
I suppose that we need to conform and be herded sometimes, thinking that in order to belong, we have to possess certain likenesses and bear certain marks. In fact, one man once said "The mark of greatness is when everything before you becomes obsolete, and everything after you bears your mark." We should absolutely learn from our pasts, but the past will never become obsolete; we learn from the past in retrospect in order to develop ourselves and gain wisdom from all that came before. As for all that follow us, we cannot help that they bear certain distinguishing characteristics of our generations, but I can't help but think that our lives are lived in vain; those that follow us shall meld their generation into their very own, and no doubt be mindful of our influences and their futures.
Upon reflection, and writing this, I come to realize that, just as scientifically the universe infinitely expands and contracts, my feelings of being pulled and pushed in different directions is anything but unnatural. Chaos is present in any system, namely the mind, and the only way to conquer it is to embrace it, knowing that there will continually be a struggle and never a feeling of stagnancy. If anything, one must go with the flow and let the universe do its worst. Best case scenario you find out what you're made of; worst case, you find out what you're made of.
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